这么位高权(quán )重的人去拜访一个看大门的小人物,还(hái )要被甩脸色,这(zhè )种事放到现代可行么(me )?信陵君固然是心胸开阔求(qiú )贤若渴,侯赢也是不卑不亢,并不为权贵动心(xīn ),只有让他(tā )看(kàn )得上(shàng )的人(rén )物才回去结交。还是说,在现代,可能么?大官(guān )去见一个看大(dà )门的,你(nǐ )不陪(péi )出(chū )满(mǎn )脸的假(jiǎ )笑(xiào ),不(bú )露出(chū )一副感激(jī )不尽的鸟相,以后你还想(xiǎng )不(bú )想(xiǎng )过了?